Beauty..physical or indepth?

Beautiful.. Is physical beauty more important then indepth beauty?

Many of us will view physical beauty as a more important aspect when it comes to choosing their partner's. Afterall, physical beauty is everything which gives a first impression to people who meets you.

Initially of cos, and until now i still do believe that indepth beauty is more important and it outshines physical beauty. However it amazes me when I have a chat with a couple of people who will choose physical looks more. That i have come to conclude, maybe most people out there also will be the same and choose physical beauty first. Afterall, who won't want to be seen with a handsome bf or a pretty gf with them? Of cos there is no right or wrong, everyone is free to make their own choice.

I mean, it is very true that these days, with good looks, good body, good clothes, good way of speaking and a little bit of common sence is enough to pull you through an interview and get you a good job. It is just a fact of life...that If two ladies were to go for an interview, both with same qualification, but one of them is pretty with a good figure to go with it wherelse the other is more plain looking and not so shapey, the prettier lady is more likely to secure the job.

I have met people, who turn down girls/guys because they are not pretty/handsome. They don't even give themselves a chance to get to know them.

I have also met guys and girls, who may not be classified as pretty, or handsome. But I do know them personally and in person, they have the best personality anyone could ever have. Such great people, they are the type who would do anything for you and they are the nicest people anyone could meet. But jst bcos they are slightly overweight, and not as attractive as other people, they have difficulties in meeting people who will love them for who they are.

I feel that we shouldn't discrimate a person for how she/he looks. We should allow ourselve to get to know them for who they really are, and not jst for their looks. Else, it is unfair.

Guess, sometimes it is jst human nature. I sometimes tell myself too, perhaps if I'm prettier, or if I look sexier, then my bf will pay more attention to me. But then again, physical beauty does not last long. People age, and the body will age too. Does that mean that when I grow old, and get wrinkles, go all fat and ugly my husband will lose interest in me? That's perhaps so also...else why is there such thing call prostitution which guys go for? The young girl's body will always be in full supply in that area call prostitution. So even if guys age old, and their wife's body is no longer as appealing then how it used to, prostitution is where they can get younger bodies.

I suppose I don't really know what I'm typing in here either. I'm sitting in office and feeling sleepy.

Facts of life.

I have just came to learn from my bf also, that it is facts of life that after some time of being in a relationship, guys will lose interest and tend to drift away. They will give u less attention, miss u less, talk to u less and see u less often. That is the time when girls like myself feel the need to move on to find someone else who could giv us the attention we want so we would feel appreciated and loved. Then it will happen all over again, and when will the cycle end? As of my last posting...I suppose, I just haven't found 'the one', and also I am perhaps just not 'the one' for him.